What the good guys are looking for in a woman. Part II

1. A sincere relationship with God

2. Modest

Modesty is something that has largely been forfeited (I started to say lost, but it has been forfeited.) Our society, much to our detriment, has convinced girls that they are a piece of meat. Girls are so hungry for male attention, that they walk around in various states of undress. They are sent the message over and over again, that nobody cares what you are like on the inside. And I say with much sorrow, that those thoughts are what govern many girls behavior and dress. What they are told is that men will only like you if you look sexy. What they are taught is: that men are only interested in your lack of virtue. In fact, that virtue is the currency spent for the affection of a man. Sadly, when older girls have learned this lesson, they begin teaching it to their younger sisters and friends.

Let me tell you plainly, good guys take note when a woman who is dressed modestly walks into a room. (By modest, I don’t mean a Holly Hobby dress and a bonnet on her head; I mean everything that is supposed to be covered is covered, and her clothes do not look as if she were vacuum-packed in them.) Just by the way she is dressed, she stands out as an individual. It shows that she understands that she wasn’t put here just to please a man. It shows that she has standards. It is an outward sign that there is something of great significance on the inside. It is among girls like these, a man finds a girl whose beauty wells up and spills over from the inside. And once you’ve found a diamond . . . everything else is just a rock.

3. Kind
4. Sense of humor
5. Courageous
6. Trustworthy
7. Willing to be alone